On Sunday I had my first driving class, everyone was like "Have fun driving!" but it was the in class portion where we just sat around hearing about the rules of the road and the Graduated Licensing Program and watched some gory videos about what happens when you text and drive and hitting deer on the road and some goofy drunks falling on their heads in front of the police. It was pretty good really, even though I already saw the texting video because it circulated on facebook a while back. Our instructor is going to Ecuador for ten days, so we won't be doing any in car hours until after the 20th when he comes back, but then I have six hours with him. The last two hours are the two hours just before the road test which he is gonna schedule for us and so hopefully by the time we do the test we won't be so nervous. It's a really good idea. And we will get to use his car for the road test. Excellent! It's First Nations Driving Academy, my Mum saw their car in town a while back and wanted me to try with them, but I couldn't find them in the phone book. Not a surprise since the business is up north actually, but he comes down to work for Saskatoon Tribal Council, who is paying for me to take this course.
And since I quit smoking up I will actually be able to practice driving with my mom. I won't be spending my days being intoxicated and thus unable to drive! Woot woot! I'm happy about that. The road test will happen before March 31st, so hopefully I will have my license in April! Awesome!
My new bra is irritating my back and I can't find my old bra. It's distressing me because now I have a sore on my back and it hurts. I've never had a bra make a raw spot before!!!!
Tomorrow morning I am learning Social Media for my Company at Praxis. I hope I wake up in time. After that I am going to see my psychic at noon. I am bringing my laptop so I can record the session with Garage Band. I'm really excited, I am hoping it will give me some direction and let me know if the decisions I am making now are the right ones. I am pretty sure they are, deciding to quit weed is fairly substantial and was necessary. It was long overdue, I just wasn't ready until I did quit almost three weeks ago. I was waffling and wavering on it for a long time. I knew it wasn't good for at least three years, but I didn't have that inner consensus about quitting until nineteen days ago. I still have some weed left, but it's in the vaporizer which is being given away soon to a friend of my mom's. And my mom is holding onto it and it's hidden in her room somewhere. Either way, I quit while I still had a titch left, and that actually felt kind of good, because I wasn't quitting with absolutely nothing.
I had this funny dream last night that I was heading to the altar expecting to marry some blonde dream woman who I was supposedly in love with, but when I got there my past big love was waiting for me and I was happy to see her. It was kind of funny because when I woke up I was like "Wait, that's not right! I'm trying to get over her!" And anyway, I don't think it will come true, because she does treat me bad when I try to be nice to her. So whatever, it must just be some weird subconscious thing.
A brain fart.
Mister and Beatrix Kitty are on my bed all curled up and sleeping, the little sweeties. Beatrix isn't pissing around on everything anymore, unless I don't take the laundry out of the basket quick enough, but my friend Carrie who I have been hitting the gym with lots and I agree that it's probably because she views laundry baskets as cozy litter boxes. She's not doing it maliciously anyway. Little Mister still barks too much, but he wasn't too bad tonight.
I finally got my grant cheque today! I was so excited, I went down to a Sasktel Mobility store to get my iPhone 4S and found out Sasktel wants a $500 deposit from me first! :O FOCK! So since most of my cheque has a hold on it, I am gonna wait until next week. I can wait a week longer. But I did get some gym runners, which are SWEET! And I got Microsoft Office for my laptop, so now I can read and write word documents, kind of a crucial piece of software for me, considering how much I like to write. PLUS I can now use Excel and Powerpoint too. Woot woot!
I've been having trouble configuring my email on my computer, first it would send emails but not receive any, now it receives but won't send. WTF? Something about my password not being right. What the hell!!!!????? ARG! I can figure it out, I know I can, it's just gonna take me a couple more hours. I have resolved to use webmail until tomorrow night when I will work on the damn thing some more. I gotta get it sorted.
Work is work. I have to really get cracking on it. I'm behind where I was hoping to be by now, but I can catch up.
The roommate situation has slightly improved, although the day I deleted my dealer's number he was drunk and pestering me to get him some ecstasy, and of course I told him "I deleted his number" but still he assumed I got E or something because I had money. I didn't though. There have been warnings about bad E going around that has meth in it and is killing people. So I'm turned off by it now. I wasn't ever a hardcore ecstasy user anyway though, it's not a major loss for me. Anyway, now he is talking about getting help for his addiction, and Mum is looking into a treatment centre in Lethbridge that was recommended to her by a social worker we know. The one here wouldn't be very good for him apparently. But she said when he comes back we might have to have a dry house, which is a major bummer for me because drinks cost more money if you have them in a bar or pub. And I like sitting at home and surfing the net with a beer in my hand. Sigh. Not all the time, just sometimes it is nice to have a six pack in the fridge.
Anyway, I still want to move out. I was thinking of moving out in a year when my business has had enough clients that I have enough in my business account to pay a minimum of three months wages for me, more would be better. But to have a guaranteed cushion of money to fall back on if I don't get clients for a while, that would be good.
I have to find the perfect place for Mister, Beatrix, my unknown roommate and myself though. A small house in a safe neighborhood with a fenced yard for Little Mister to frolic in. He really likes houses with yards, they make him happy. He'll wander around with his little tail wagging for no reason when he feels happy and secure in his housing, he gets depressed in apartments.
My inactive going nowhere crush resigned from working at my sister's group home, so I won't see her anymore. Kind of a bummer, I like seeing crushes even if they are never going to go anywhere anyway.
What else? Ah, not much else, I should go to bed because I do have to get up early and go to school and then my psychic and then do work work work. And then later on go to the gym and then go to bed again I guess.
OOOOHHHH! Nope, there is one other thing. I went to NA for the second time in my life yesterday night. There is a meeting in my neighborhood every Sunday at 8, so I went and I mostly liked it because it was a lot less sweary than the meeting I went to on Broadway. The only thing that left a bad taste in my mouth was this guy blaming all the women at the meeting for not helping out this other woman who was having a hard time and left before the meeting ended. I felt it was a bad way to end the meeting and just bad form all around. I didn't stick around for the birthday cake and I feel kinda weird. I might go back. I probably will go back. But the next meeting I am gonna try and get to is the SOS meeting, it's a Secular Sobriety meeting for people who don't feel they fit in with AA/NA etc. The only problem is it is only on twice a month, and I don't know if that is often enough for me right now. I am also going to still attend my Concurrent Disorders group, because I like that one and it is really supportive and there are professionals who work with us, I think one is a psych nurse and one is an addictions worker. Either way, it is more my speed and I can relate to the people there the best. And that is once a week every Friday. I am also ordering the Lifering workbook, which is another Secular Sobriety program that people can do on their own or attend meetings. There are no Lifering meetings in my area, but I read Empowering Your Sober Self and liked it, and their workbook is their other publication and I read selected chapters that they have as PDFs on their website and found it useful. So I'm going to see if it helps.
Well GOODNIGHT! I hope I have some awesome dreams! Getting my dreams back have been nice, they are slowly getting more and more frequent and clear. I remember them a lot better. Tonight I talked with one of my close friends, Robin, and it was really good and she was happy about all the changes in my life and that I am off weed. The only crappy thing about our conversation was how much her phone cut out! Oh well.